At least once a day, someone will ask me for tips on how to be more attractive to women.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Unfortunately, most of these guys are looking for the subliminals, paraliminals, and hypno-peripherals which will do all the heavy lifting for them, transforming them into the ultimate ladies man after just 30 days of passive listening.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sure, you can use these kinds of tracks to assist your transformation, but you’d be better served by making your own self-hypnosis track using the material from my Seduction Mastery Coaching program. (It was never formally released, but Mindvana Gold members can access these videos in the Mindvana bonus section on Teachable).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
However, when it comes to learning how to become an attractive man that beautiful women go gaga over, there\u2019s no substitute for working 1-on-1 with an experienced dating\/seduction coach.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Here\u2019s a much better question\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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\u201cJay, I have used a little of your training with my GF who is thousands of miles away but yesterday she said she really is missing me and is going crazy in the head for me and just can’t help it. Is it possible for you to give us any solid ideas for how to drive our distant GFs crazy for us to keep the interest alive?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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As much as I dislike long distance relationships, you\u2019d better believe I have a massive medley of LDR tactics in my toolkit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
One of the most important ones comes straight from the Mindvana playbook. My yoga girl (who\u2019s very experienced with guided meditations) refers to it as \u201cguided masturbation.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mindvana members can most likely figure out how to do this from watching my videos, but I plan on including it in my falling-in-love protocol (if I ever get around to it).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ideally, you should lead her through this process when she\u2019s lying in bed about to go to sleep (be sure to layer in lots of Mindvana-esque suggestions and commands, all throughout).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Another tip is to give them a task to do earlier in the day, so you can use the naughty hypnosis as their reward.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
(Giving assignments is another important stand-alone tactic for LDR\u2019s. You should give them at least one task to do for you each week {daily, if they\u2019re not currently working}, and reward their efforts upon competition.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n
It\u2019s also important to plan your trips at least a couple weeks in advance so the excitement can slow-boil (no last-minute flights). Once the plane ticket has been purchased, you\u2019ll start cranking up the excitement (with Mindvana patterns) until she\u2019s frantically counting down the minutes until she gets to jump on top of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I also make time to speak to them before bed (about 5 times a week). Nothing special here\u2026 just let them tell you about their day, how they\u2019ve been feeling, how much they miss you, etc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Doing this early-on in the dating process makes them feel like they\u2019re already your girlfriend (which is useful if you\u2019re looking to make them fall in love). Just make sure you\u2019re not always available so they have time to miss you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Here\u2019s a quick update from Jim, who\u2019s been drowning in Brazilians. Apparently, Mindvana has been causing nothing but problems for him\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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\u201cJay, Mindvana has definitely created an issue because there are TWO Brazilian beauties (one is a fashion model and the other a tango dancing tax attorney) and each are jealous that I don’t spend time with only them. Both would make Maxim’s hot woman list. Any advice on how to manage?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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To which I replied, \u201cMy apologies, Jim. Two hot-blooded Latinas fighting over you often leads to high blood pressure. On the bright side, I would certainly refer to this as a \u2018high-quality problem.\u2019\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n ===<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cJay no shit, you have improved my problems. The jealous one had se-x with me online today. Told me to put her on all fours, and fu*k her without mercy while I pulled her hair. And when we finished, she said she knew I was a freak. Wait, I\u2019M the freak here???\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n ===<\/p>\n\n\n\n A \u201cfreak,\u201d huh? That must have hit you right in the feels.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Females love to deny any and all responsibility for their se-xual proclivities. Just nod shamefully while replying, \u201cYes, dear. I\u2019m am insatiable perv with a sadistic streak. Come help rehabilitate me.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n While Jim is already well-versed with guided masturbations, he needs a wee bit of help with his juggling skills.<\/p>\n\n\n\n So I asked Mindvana seminar-circuit celebrity, fellow pu88y-whisperer, and resident 3-some expert, Doc John, to prescribe a remedy for Jim\u2019s life-threatening conundrum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n ===<\/p>\n\n\n\n “My first thought? He should set up a threesome asap. lol Seriously though, when girls are hot they have choices. They will always have satellite men. If he doesn\u2019t want to deal with any drama, he should just be the best thing they ever had and then cut one of them loose. The one he dumps might come back in the future like a revolving door between disappointing guys she dates. Personally, I would keep sleeping with both of them until one finally dropped an ultimatum.” \u2013 Doc John<\/p>\n\n\n\n ===<\/p>\n\n\n\n Solid advice. If Jim just recently started seeing these girls, then there\u2019s no need to do anything. As much as women bitch and moan about it, you\u2019d better believe they enjoy competing against each other for a high-quality man.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The first step is to dismiss their whining whenever it comes up (without discussing things logically). \u201cAgree and amplify\u201d works well here.<\/p>\n\n\n\n