I received an interesting email from a woman who was “forced” to have o-gasms against her will by her sneaky coach\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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\u201cLove your work Jay. I found you on YouTube while trying figure out what a guy had done to me (triggered off mind blowing o-gasms for 3 full days) while I was taking his online coaching course for growing my coaching business. So now I want my boyfriend to learn mindvana.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Question – how do you stop women getting utterly obsessed with you? I have found it really hard to stop my mind continually thinking about that man that triggered all those orgasms\u2026 totally creates neural pathways of bonding & attachment & made me quite obsessed until I found your method and realized it\u2019s not unique to that guy & he doesn\u2019t have superpowers.\u201d \u2013 Jennifer<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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So many sneaky cult leaders out there, up to no good.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
When I first read this, I thought to myself, \u201cOk, this is definitely possible. But it is LIKELY? Definitely not.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
So I had a chat with her so I could investigate a bit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The context: She\u2019s taking an online training to learn how to be a better coach and to learn how to grow her coaching biz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The coach seems to be very successful and has studied hypnosis, NLP, sales techniques, and all that jazz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And while my students are well aware that it\u2019s absolutely possible to elicit o-gasms over video chat, it\u2019s extremely difficult to do this COVERTLY and in the context of a life coaching seminar, without using any overt trance inductions, and without a handful of students flipping out at the inappropriateness of it all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
But here\u2019s her take on it\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cHe was using a combination of imagery and suggestions to elicit o-gams and then anchored them to his eyes and kept firing them off for days on end.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hmmm. Possible? Maybe. Plausible? Definitely not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
She also admitted to having \u201cstrong neural pathways for o-gasms,\u201d which I\u2019ll assume to mean that she o-gasms easily and can probably think herself to climax if she concentrates hard enough.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Here\u2019s my best guess: this guy was trying to elicit strong emotions (like joy, freedom, success, etc.) and link them to the completion of the students\u2019 homework or the end result of having a successful business. Pretty standard fare for NLP trainers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And this woman, who happens to be a great hypnotic subject (and also highly o-gasmic) responded with se-xual arousal and o-gasmic states. Afterwards, she convinced herself that the coach was doing it on purpose, and just to her, using sneaky hypnotic techniques that the rest of the group couldn\u2019t pick up on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Possible? Maybe\u2026 especially if he had already worked with her one-on-one and set up triggers for all this (which he did not).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Plausible? Definitely not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
We have to also consider the hidden elements in place that would set the stage for these types of feelings to emerge.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
This guy is an authority figure teaching this woman how to grow her business. He\u2019s successful with a large following and is someone she looks up to. There are other women in the class who show him positive attention (and who are obviously attracted to him).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
In other words, the context he\u2019s operating in gives him a rock star vibe, right from the get-go.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
This woman\u2019s husband, comparatively, is extremely passive and submissive. Covid has probably magnified his perceived flaws, since they\u2019re most likely spending too much time together at home without having the kind of se-x this woman is craving.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
In her words: \u201cMy husband is totally passive and lets me run the show. But my coach just totally takes control, not just during class but also during our coaching calls.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Yes, women are starved for men who know how to lead and \u201ctake control\u201d so that they (the women) don\u2019t have to. If you can\u2019t do this outside the bedroom, women will assume you can\u2019t do it INSIDE the bedroom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
So\u2026 now that all of this is in place and we know she\u2019s starved for a powerful se-xual experience, this guy shows up, does his song and dance, and the woman\u2019s mind does all the rest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
This reminds me of my Mindvana sessions with Kymberly. She was PRIMED to have a powerful se-xual experience way before she met me. She was researching hypnosis, se-xuality, spirituality, etc. And then she meets me, who she perceived to be an expert in these areas, felt an initial attraction, and was totally open to learning anything I was willing to show her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
CONTEXT is everything. And once you set up the right context, you\u2019ll have fertile soil for making magic happen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The placebo effect, as we know, is extremely powerful, since it\u2019s essentially just self-hypnosis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
For example, when a stage hypnosis participant expects to drop like a rock, their expectations are usually fulfilled. The hypnotist doesn\u2019t have to do much at all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
(Check out my “Ice Cream Induction” for a great example of this in action. It’s still one of my favorite inductions of all time and has a near 95% success rate).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
When I explained all this to Jennifer, she had an \u201cah-ha\u201d moment and laughed at the layers of rationalizations she came up with. I also gave her some homework to help her determine if this dude really does have an insane level of covert hypnotic skill, or if she\u2019s been the one driving the bus, all along.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
There are 2 important lessons here:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The first is that it\u2019s not so easy to wield these fabled mind control tactics COVERTLY, even though that\u2019s how most of these goo-roo guys market it (e.g., \u201cLearn to hypnotize total strangers without them even knowing to make them fall completely in love and do whatever you want, forever and ever!\u201d). Remember, these trainers benefit greatly from people thinking they\u2019re wizards with magic powers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Luckily, you don\u2019t need to be covert, since women will happily line up to have the experience (as I demonstrate over and over again in my videos).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The second lesson is that women will tend to become incredibly attracted to, and infatuated with, men who can elicit powerful emotions and se-xual sensations, especially when they\u2019re also displaying attractive male qualities (like confidence and dominance).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And this is why I added those extra bonus videos to Mindvana Gold which lay out how you should be acting with women OUTSIDE OF your hypnosis sessions so they start looking at you with googly eyes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Remember that just doing hypnosis with a woman creates a tremendous amount of rapport, even if it\u2019s just a simple relaxation session. Add in powerful emotions like arousal and ecstasy to the mix, and many girls will start to become crazy about you. But why stop here and leave things up to chance?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
As I\u2019ve said many times, it\u2019s not JUST about giving them hypnotic o-gasms. With some girls, yes, that could be all it takes to make them obsessed. But most girls need you to go beyond o-gasms and give them all the other things they\u2019re starving for.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And if you don\u2019t, women will start LOOKING ELSEWHERE to get these needs met. Best case scenario, she develops a strong crush on someone and never acts on it. Worst case scenario, she cheats on you for years and then eventually divorces you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Can you imagine being oblivious to the fact that your wife is o-gasming in the next room during an online class, while fantasizing about banging her teacher?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I hate to the bearer of bad news, but this is the cost of not knowing how to deliver these feelings on command.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
So you can choose to take this massive risk by leaving things up to chance\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
OR you can spend $1.60 a day and learn how to make your woman ecstatically happy, while rendering your competition (including coaches, goo-roos and wannabe cult leaders) completely irrelevant and impotent.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
All the fancy-schmancy details are right here:<\/p>\n\n\n\n