{"id":21,"date":"2020-07-11T19:13:26","date_gmt":"2020-07-11T19:13:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/learnhypnosisfast.com\/blog\/?p=21"},"modified":"2020-07-13T21:16:58","modified_gmt":"2020-07-13T21:16:58","slug":"naughty-conversational-hypnosis-decoded","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/learnhypnosisfast.com\/blog\/naughty-conversational-hypnosis-decoded\/","title":{"rendered":"Naughty conversational hypnosis decoded"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

I\u2019ve been super busy these past two weeks working with all the lockdown prisoners who won a fr-ee coaching session.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And as much as I want to be lazy today and binge-watch Breaking Bad, I promised to break down the conversational hypnosis techniques you saw me use in last week\u2019s podcast<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

(Fun fact about me: I don\u2019t have a TV in my house because it would be a massive distraction. But now that I\u2019m sitting in front of a 90 inch flatscreen with a Bose theater system, I\u2019m tempted to waste all those years of my life I\u2019ve been putting off wasting.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ok, let\u2019s jump right in\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

(and if you missed the email with the podcast link, check your spam box or drop me a line and I\u2019ll resend it)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

First off, I\u2019ve been getting tons of requests for a conversational hypnosis product. If you\u2019re interested in learning this skill-set, then buckle up, because you\u2019ll learn a lot from this breakdown.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now\u2026 before you attempt to influence anyone, you\u2019ll need to first \u201clink up\u201d with them on a subconscious level. In hypnosis-speak, we call this \u201cgetting rapport with your subject.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is an extensive topic, so I\u2019m gonna skip over it for now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

After you have rapport (and your subject\u2019s attention), you can start to go to work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So let\u2019s talk about the interview\u2026.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The conversational hypnosis started when Johanna asked me about Mindvana.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The first thing I did was create a plausible context for what I was about to say (to avoid sounding weird when attempting to elicit emotional states).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I said something like, \u201cOk, here\u2019s how Mindvana works. Let\u2019s say you and I were dating\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is equivalent to directly telling her to \u201cimagine we\u2019re a couple,\u201d and makes everything I\u2019m about to say acceptable (since it\u2019ll be cloaked in the context of a Mindvana explanation).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Are you following me? With that simple line, I\u2019ve created a greenhouse where I can start planting my ideas and concepts without any resistance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019ll use this same approach at certain stages in the Mindvana process. I\u2019ll say, \u201cFor this next part, I\u2019m going to pretend that we\u2019ve been dating for a while so I\u2019ll be speaking to you as if you were my girlfriend.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Once I do that, I can start describing what sex with me will feel like (along with lots of other crazy stuff you can\u2019t say to a stranger) and the girl won\u2019t bat an eyelash.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Getting back to the interview, I also made sure to shift my tone of voice while using the language patterns. I slowed down a bit and dropped my pitch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This accomplishes a few things:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Speaking in this way tends to naturally lead someone into a trance state (no induction necessary). And since I know she\u2019s been hypnotized in the past, there\u2019s a 90% chance that her brain is already primed to go into trance when she hears anyone speaking like this (which makes things even easier for me).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. My voice tone will also act as an anchor\/trigger for trance when I use it again in the future.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Lastly, the change in tone tells her (in a subtle way) to really pay attention to what I\u2019m saying.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

(And you can see her go into trance if you watch closely.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Next, I started using a combination of descriptive language and embedded commands to create the emotional states I wanted her to experience.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I set the stage with a scene that\u2019s completely normal and easy to imagine: coming home from work stressed out and saying hello to your boyfriend.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Regarding the choice of emotional states, I started off with something gentle and innocuous (the feeling of relaxation and inner peace) to avoid any possible resistance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

(Saying, \u201cas soon as you walk through the door, I immediately yank your pants off and bend you over the couch,\u201d is obviously too much, too soon. You need to ease into the sex-ual stuff, or you\u2019ll come across uncalibrated and creepy.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now I start describing the emotions I want her to feel. I said something like:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cAs I wrap my arms around you, I whisper something in your ear\u2026 and instantly, your whole body starts to relax\u2026 you feel your muscles soften\u2026 and all that tension starts to drain away. You feel completely peaceful and warm all over\u2026 and you start to smile inside because you just feel so good.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019m simply describing the state I want, the same way you\u2019ve seen me do it in the Mindvana videos<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019m also using a conversational hypnosis technique called \u201cembedded commands\u201d (which are taught both in Mindvana and the Mastermind Program).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is where you mark out certain phrases by using a slightly different tone of voice, so the subject\u2019s subconscious mind pays more attention to them and starts to act upon them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

(The commands in the above description were italicized so you can easily pick them out.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019m essentially telling her subconscious to \u201cmake her muscles soften, then make her feel peaceful and warm, and then make her smile and feel really good.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now\u2026 once I\u2019ve elicited the state I want, I\u2019ll create an anchor\/trigger for it. I do this by repeating a simple phrase like \u201cjust relax\u201d or whatever else I choose. Then I\u2019ll intensify the state a bit and repeat the phrase a few times (to strengthen it).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I then took her through the same process for other emotional states, like feeling sexy and beautiful, and having really sensitive skin that feels amazing when I touch it. I described the states I was after (using embedded commands and a hypnotic voice tone), intensified them, and set anchors\/triggers for them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

None of this is complicated\u2026 it just takes a little practice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Here\u2019s something else I did: after setting an anchor, I would drop what I was doing and go right back to talking about other things using my normal voice tone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Then when I went back to my Mindvana explanation, I\u2019d use my hypnotic voice again while firing off the triggers I set (to bring back the emotions I elicited earlier).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you have the 7-Day Quick Start Course<\/a><\/strong>, then you\u2019ll recognize exactly what I\u2019m doing. Do you remember what this technique is called? (Don\u2019t make me bust out the dunce cap.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s called oscillation (most trainers call it \u201cfractionation\u201d). I\u2019m taking her in and out of trance multiple times (which deepens each succeeding trance) – I\u2019m just simply doing this conversationally.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And throughout the process, I took a girl who I\u2019ve never spoken to before and made her imagine what it would be like to be my girlfriend\u2026 to be touched, kissed and feel amazing in my presence\u2026 all in a completely natural way that wasn\u2019t weird or creepy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you can get someone to first imagine doing what you want them to do (and have them think it\u2019s their own idea), then you\u2019re already halfway home.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

My goal was to do another series of descriptions at the end of the interview that were more sex-ual in nature while continuing to amp up the pleasure sensations. Unfortunately, she cut things short after an hour so I didn\u2019t get a chance to take things further. Our love was never given a chance to blossom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Heartbreaking, indeed. I\u2019ll need years of therapy. ;(<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So that covers a big chunk of what I was doing. I\u2019m sure I used some other techniques I can\u2019t remember off the top of my head (like presupps, tag questions, sex-ual innuendo, etc.). But this is more than enough to get the wheels in your own head turning.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hopefully it inspired you to start using this material, yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And everything I just covered is explained in The Mindvana Method. I simply modified the techniques slightly so I could use them conversationally. Again, there\u2019s nothing special about any of it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And one last point\u2026 to be perfectly honest, what you saw me do in the podcast wasn\u2019t that great.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I was simply riffing some patterns off the top of my head without putting much thought into them. If I thought about them beforehand, I could have scripted something that would have sounded much better.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But the point is, you can still be effective without being perfect, as long as you understand the principles behind what you\u2019re trying to accomplish.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hope you enjoyed that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

On a side note, people have been gobbling up copies of Mindvana all throughout the lockdown, which is surprising considering I haven\u2019t been promoting it. I guess since everyone\u2019s sitting home bored out of their minds, they\u2019ve finally decided to get around to things they\u2019ve been putting off.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re in the same boat and wanna devote some time to learning hypnosis, shoot me an email and let me know what you\u2019re specifically interested in learning.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Until Canada opens up its borders, Johanna and I have to hold off on consummating our love. Which means I may have some time to put together a workshop over webcam. \ud83d\ude09 I\u2019ll keep you posted.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Talk soon,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Jay<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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