One of our female readers, who not only claims to be an experienced hypnotist, but also an experienced dominatrix, writes in to offer her services.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Responding to Tuesday\u2019s email (about my student\u2019s gf challenges), she wasted no time in explaining how my approach is all wrong, how Mindvana doesn\u2019t live up to the hype, and that I\u2019m incapable of helping men with relationship challenges, due to lacking the necessary insight that only a woman can bring to the table.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I was actually shocked she didn\u2019t accuse me of having a tiny penis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
(Btw, she\u2019s not a student and has no idea what\u2019s inside the program.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I\u2019m not gonna bore you by posting her 5-page monstrosity, but after sifting through the inaccurate assessments, condescending snark, and multiple back-handed compliments, I uncovered this juicy blurb:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cI think Mindvana needs a woman’s touch. And not just any woman, but a woman who has a lot of insight in erotic hypnosis and who has enjoyed playing with the minds of eager, submissive men for a while now.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
After insulting me and bragging about \u201cplaying with men\u2019s minds\u201d she thought I\u2019d be ecstatic to partner up. One thing\u2019s for sure: her persuasion skills are hot garbage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
First time I had to slam down the ban hammer on a female reader. 2020 is a year of firsts, I can tell ya that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Which brings me to today\u2019s public service announcement\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Guys, stay FAR AWAY from dominatrix chicks. They don\u2019t provide a useful service and they\u2019re not improving anyone\u2019s mental health. It\u2019s one step below helping you shoot up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I know \u201cBillions\u201d tried to make it acceptable, but there\u2019s nothing ok about it. It\u2019s weird and you shouldn\u2019t put yourself in those situations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
On top of that, you don\u2019t need to ever experiment with \u201csubmissiveness.\u201d Letting your girl \u201ctake care of you\u201d while you watch a game in your recliner is the only \u201csubmissive\u201d position you should ever find yourself in.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
You should also stay away from the er-otic hypnosis tracks floating around the net. While I\u2019m sure they\u2019re mostly harmless, they can potentially be dangerous if you\u2019re highly suggestible, so don\u2019t risk it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And finally, never ever ever give an e-thot any of your hard-earned money. They\u2019re trying to hijack your nurturing instinct while giving you nothing of value in return.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Just say no to simping.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Look\u2026 if you have a weird, embarrassing, or potentially harmful fetish, then go work with a competent professional to remove it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
(No, you don\u2019t need to live with it. It\u2019s just another program in your mental computer that can be removed and replaced with something much healthier.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n
But here\u2019s some advice that\u2019s even more important\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Do NOT take dating\/relationship advice from women, under any circumstances.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Listening to women is akin to following a cult leader. You\u2019ll always a get a few useful nuggets, but then they\u2019ll eventually tell you to do something that will completely ruin everything.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
(The only caveat is a lesbian with a track record of seducing hot straight girls. But you\u2019ll be more likely to spot the Chupacabra in the wild.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Women have no idea why they think and act the way they do. They act first (unconsciously) and then try to rationalize their actions afterwards (often with disastrous results).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
But like I said, they will almost always have SOME useful insights.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Case in point, I want to discuss something the dominatrix chick brought up, which is that many women have experienced se-xual trauma which prevents them from fully opening up and enjoying themselves in the bedroom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
In my student\u2019s case, this could certainly be the reason his girl isn\u2019t open to giving bj\u2019s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Now I made sure to include lessons in Mindvana for how to work with some of these issues, if you choose to go that route.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
But here\u2019s the thing: Mindvana wasn\u2019t designed to be a therapeutic program. These extra lessons were added as a bonus for the guys who really want to commit themselves to learning the therapy side of hypnosis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
But it\u2019s not easy. It takes study and practice and you should be practicing with strangers before trying to help your girl.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
On top of this, you should only be helping your girl with MINOR issues. If she\u2019s struggling with severe trauma then you shouldn\u2019t be stepping into the therapist role, since there\u2019s a 90% chance that doing so will cause problems in your relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Instead, refer her out to a competent hypnotist. You could also send her to me, if you\u2019d like.
And no, this won\u2019t be for hypno o-gasms or any of that (I don\u2019t offer se-xual hypnosis to my paying clients, nor would I ever do that with a student’s gf). This would be legitimate therapeutic hypnosis to resolve her past traumas and remove whatever obstacles are in the way of having a satisfying se-x life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And, in case you\u2019re wondering\u2026 why a hypnotist and not a traditional therapist?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Some girl left a nasty comment on one of my youtube videos yesterday, complaining that it brought back painful memories and needs a \u201ctrigger warning\u201d for se-xual abuse survivors. She also claimed to have spent years in therapy in order to finally be fr-ee of her issue.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I hate to break it to her, but if she can\u2019t watch a video on consensual er-otic hypnosis without being \u201ctriggered\u201d then she hasn\u2019t fully resolved her issue.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I don\u2019t know about you, but I\u2019d be pretty pissed if I spent years in therapy and still had to live with my problem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cMy car\u2019s been in the shop since \u201989 but just a few more years and my brakes will be as good as new.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Anyhoo, the stabbing pain in my testicles just came back with a vengeance (that chick wore stiletto heels). But before I go ice my nads, let me leave you with this\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
We live in a world full of trigger warnings and guys who think it\u2019s healthy to let their girlfriends peg them with strap-ons.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
In other words, everybody has gone SOFT.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
But the good news for YOU is that strong, hard, dominant men can effortlessly step in and clean up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And if you want to learn how to exude these qualities, due to your ability to deliver incredibly rare, yet highly prized se-xual experiences to open-minded hotties, then the link below might be a good place to start\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n