One of our members thinks I should have kept my mouth shut about the dominatrix chick\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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\u201cHi Jay. Just some advice for you\u2026 I know you need content for your newsletter but I wouldn\u2019t have written about that dominatrix woman. I know it is a teaching point but it shows that she touched something inside you and that you actually cared about what she said. Also you posted someone (who is a loser nonetheless) saying something negative about your product. Now you have put a kernel of thought into all your readers that there may be an iota of truth to it.\u201d – Larry<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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Thanks for the feedback, Larry. Here\u2019s my take\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
First off, the woman isn\u2019t a student and didn\u2019t bother to check out the program before jumping to erroneous conclusions and making baseless accusations. Had she actually gone through the material, she might have been able to offer helpful feedback, which I\u2019m always open to receiving.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Secondly, I\u2019m far beyond the point of \u201ccaring about what people say\u201d on an emotional level.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Long before my youtube channel took off, I spent a lot of time on twitter and rocked a 100k+ follower count. And while twitter can certainly be a harsh hangout spot, youtube\u2019s comment section is even less respectful of weak constitutions, I can tell you that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Between these 2 platforms, I\u2019ve learned how horrid and vile the internet can be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I\u2019ve been called an ugly loser, an abusive rapist, and a tiny-di*ked douchebag.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I\u2019ve gotten multiple death threats and lots of suicide \u201csuggestions\u201d (some from women who believe that \u201cshort men shouldn\u2019t exist\u201d lol).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I\u2019ve been blitzed by a hundred-man-army of internet trolls who told me, all on the same day, that I was a lying scammer who should kill himself to make the world a better place.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
But the comment that nearly pushed me over the edge was the time some 13yo kid said I was \u201cfake and ghey.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Not gonna lie\u2026 that one helped finance my therapist\u2019s Ferrari. (He sends that kid a Christmas card every year.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Now here\u2019s the thing\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
As crazy as this might seem, I enjoyed every minute of it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Look, if you can\u2019t handle mean words, you should stay far away from the internet. But after you learn to stomach them, you can then start to be GRATEFUL for them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Back when I was a normal human being with normal insecurities, those nasty comments helped me toughen up. And now that I have thicker skin than most honey badgers, I\u2019ve been using them to help grow my business.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
These generous trolls feed me fr-ee content that I can use to craft compelling messages which, not only help sell my products, but help me deliver value and insight to my readers via my meandering and moderately entertaining emails.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The way I see it, if my scribblings make you laugh and forget about your daily stressors for even a few minutes, then I\u2019m on the right track.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
But hold up\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cJay, you said you no longer care \u201con an emotional level.\u201d Does that mean you actually DO care what crazy people have to say about you?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Absolutely I do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I look at every comment I receive as a form of feedback. Most of it is completely useless, but I pay attention to all of it, because even a blathering idiot will occasionally serve up some useful info.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
In the case of the dominatrix, she offered nothing I wasn\u2019t already aware of. But it got me thinking that I should briefly talk about se-xual trauma, since it\u2019s often at the root of many relationship challenges.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Now, as to \u201cimplanting kernels of thought\u201d that my products may be flawed, let me say this\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
No product (or person) is 100% perfect and without flaws. Not a single one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Instead of trying to bullsh*t everyone by pretending Mindvana is flawless in every way, I\u2019d rather discuss its warts right out in the open. For example\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The first big issue is that it\u2019s not a method you can learn overnight.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hypnosis has always been historically challenging to learn, due to many teachers cloaking their teachings in secrecy (to keep their followers coming back for more).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I did my best to simplify the entire process, and I think I did a great job. But since every woman responds a bit differently, you\u2019ll need to have a solid grasp of the skill-set so you can effectively troubleshoot when you\u2019re not hitting the mark.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And it DOES take study and practice to get to this point. No way around it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Next one\u2026 For some guys, Mindvana might not be affordable. If you\u2019re struggling financially (due to covid layoffs, etc.) you may not be able to pay $47 a month.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And while I do teach some therapeutic techniques in the program, please be aware that Mindvana is not designed to help you cure severe se-xual traumas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
(Just an fyi, I do offer discounts on my therapy sessions for the girlfriends and wives of Mindvana students. Message me privately for details).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The bottom line is this:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I refuse to B.S. you and say you\u2019ll be a master of hypnotic o-gasms by the end of next week. But luckily for you, giving a girl hypno o-gasms is the LEAST important part of the process.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Just the easy-to-pull-off preliminary steps are often enough to make women completely crazy about you. Watch some of the Mindvana vids where I had girls ready to jump in my lap during the first couple of sessions, even after I \u201cfailed\u201d to give them o-gasms.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
(Pro tip: You can never really fail unless you stop trying. And even your failed attempts to bring a girl to o-gasm can have massively beneficial and long-lasting effects.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n
So, yes, learning this stuff can be tricky. But that\u2019s one of the reasons why I make myself available for my students.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Over the last five years, I\u2019ve answered 99% of the questions I\u2019ve received (via the now defunct forum, direct emails, and youtube comments). In fact, I spend a chunk of my day answering questions from people who aren\u2019t even paying members.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Why?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Because when I first started learning back in \u201997, I would have sold both my kidneys to have someone to turn to for advice and guidance. (On top of shortening my learning curve, it would have also prevented me from taking that years-long study break after getting fed-up and frustrated with my lack of progress.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And now that you have me in your corner, as long as you keep practicing and ask questions when you get stuck, there\u2019s a 99% chance that you\u2019ll successfully learn everything I have to teach you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And while I\u2019m quite sure I\u2019ll eventually figure out how to make Mindvana even better, I can assure you that, as I write this, there is no better ero-tic hypnosis program on the market.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
You\u2019re welcome to buy up every other course out there and see for yourself. Or you can just take my word for it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Again, my role here is to encourage you, inspire you, and help you replicate all of my results. Every guy reading this can achieve what I have, especially when it comes to your dating life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And it\u2019s also completely normal to be skeptical and disbelieving until the results finally slap you right in the face.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The first time I walked down the street holding hands with a 6\u20193 model who would occasionally interrupt her graceful stride to bend down and make out with me, I was rightfully shocked.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Not so much about the kissing part\u2026 shocked that she didn\u2019t offer me a bottle of pills and a razor blade. \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I guess the lesson here is this\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Just like with all of life\u2019s rules, a woman\u2019s rules are meant to be broken.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And if you\u2019re ready to break through the chains of your insecurities and start breaking hearts just like the very bad men that beautiful woman line up to be hurt by (since they love seeking out uncertainty and drama)\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2026then you might want to check out the hopelessly flawed home study course that gets ridiculed by dominatrixes and 13-year-olds the world over.<\/p>\n\n\n\n