Some questions came in about yesterday\u2019s email regarding female emotions. If you missed it, I said:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cWhen it comes to making women attracted to you, we know that it’s important to stimulate their emotions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
But what a lot of guys don\u2019t realize is how much women enjoy ALL of their emotions, including the ones we perceive as \u201cnegative.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Women, believe it or not, occasionally enjoy feeling confused, impatient, agitated, self-conscious, etc.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And while trying to come up with the best way to expand on this, I found a little blurb in my notes that does a great job of laying it all out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
(I\u2019m not sure where this came from – probably from some book I was reading – and I wish I could give the author credit because he\u2019s on point.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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If you only seek to elicit happy-face emotions in a woman, she will feel bored. She will feel unchallenged. She will feel as if the relationship is incomplete, and that she\u2019s not pushing
herself and not developing herself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And the negative emotions she experiences as part of a relationship often validate the depth and importance of that relationship for her. \u201cOh, if he can make me feel Negative Emotion X and yet I still love him, this must be a really important relationship! This is the real thing! This is fate! This was meant to be!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A woman tends to yearn for a sense of safety\u2014she therefore is drawn to \u201cstrength\u201d (e.g., dominance), and often needs to feel that the man she\u2019s with is strong. Oftentimes \u201cbitchy\u201d behavior is an attempt to elicit a show of dominance from you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Because a woman wants you to be \u201cstrong,\u201d she will also typically provide opportunities for you to demonstrate strength and earn her respect; she can do this by playing the needy, helpless, Lost Little Girl; by teasing you and inviting you to tease her in return; or by seeming argumentative, hostile, and uncooperative.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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So the next time your woman \u201cmisbehaves,\u201d instead of floundering in frustration, ask yourself if she might be craving a dose of your dominant masculine energy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Something else to consider is that every woman needs SOME level of drama in her life. And if you\u2019re not the one providing it, she\u2019ll find some other way to fill that void (which often leads to disastrous results).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
But when you\u2019re the one dishing it out, you\u2019ll have CONTROL over it to a large degree.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
This is most certainly an advanced relationship tactic, but one that will save you a tremendous amount of aggravation, since, as you now know, all girls love their \u201csilly buggers.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Yes, EVERY girl. It\u2019s only a matter of \u201cto what degree.\u201d But you\u2019d better believe that silliness is on the way so prepare yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
In the meantime, if you want a black belt in eliciting female emotions on command while creating a craving for your presence, then Mindvana is the dojo you\u2019ve been looking for.<\/p>\n\n\n\n