One of my clients is stressing over some cutie who just disappeared on him \u2013 one he hypnotized himself into falling in love with.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The backstory:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
He met the girl a few years ago but couldn\u2019t seal the deal because she had a boyfriend. They lost touch when he joined the military, but she\u2019s been on his mind ever since.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
They reconnected this past Dec and things were slowly progressing until she cut things off with a BS excuse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
As you can imagine, he\u2019s all torn up over it. But that\u2019s only because he created a mild obsession by way of \u201caccidental\u201d self-hypnosis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Most guys are guilty of creating similar obsessions when chasing pretty girls, especially ones they haven\u2019t slept with. In fact, what most of us think of as romantic love is incredibly similar to a drug addiction.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Here\u2019s how it goes down\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
When you find a girl you like, you\u2019ll tend to think about constantly which ends up attaching good feelings to the \u201cconcept\u201d of her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The more you think about her, the more your feelings intensify until you eventually end up with a craving for her presence. It\u2019s quite similar to how Mindvana works (where we create intense emotional states in a woman while linking them to ourselves).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Here\u2019s a quick test to find out if you\u2019re an addict\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hopefully you\u2019re not crushing on any girl in particular, but if you are, go ahead and visualize her in your mind\u2019s eye. Notice where \u201cin space\u201d you see her picture.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
In other words, do you see her picture right in front of you, within arm\u2019s reach? Or do you see it further back or off to one side?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I guarantee that any woman you\u2019re crazy about will be right in front of your face. And when you visualize her, you\u2019ll feel some sort of \u201crush\u201d in your body along with a strong desire to see her in person.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
While this may seem a little strange, our mind stores people in different \u201cplaces\u201d in our visual field based on how we feel about them. And once a girl gets placed front and center, you\u2019ll be more likely to act \u201cthirsty\u201d instead of behaving in an attractive way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
This process happens naturally as we spend more time with someone and start to fall in love, but it can get artificially created (as well as accelerated and intensified) whenever we think about a girl multiple times a day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
(This is a big problem since we don\u2019t want an emotional attachment to develop until AFTER we\u2019ve slept with a girl multiple times.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Now let\u2019s contrast this with a girl you have no romantic or sexual interest in. For instance, think of the barista who made your coffee this morning and notice where you see her picture on your mental movie screen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
There\u2019s a good chance her picture is much smaller than your crush\u2019s, as well as off to the side (as opposed to directly in front of your face).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
This is the spot where every girl you\u2019re pursuing needs to stay. In fact, this is where almost every girl starts off before you start c-blocking yourself with the \u201cPedestalization Process\u2122.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
To keep a new girl\u2019s pic in this spot, you\u2019ll need to train yourself to RARELY think about her when you\u2019re not physically in her presence, no matter how much you might be looking forward to seeing her again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
(It\u2019s also useful to be talking to multiple girls at any given time, which makes it harder to pedestalize any one of them.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Now if it\u2019s already too late (i.e., you\u2019re already obsessing over a girl who won\u2019t give you the time of day), you can do a simple mental exercise I developed to erase the craving you created.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
This is one of the first things I teach a client who\u2019s suffering through a rough breakup. After a few days of applying the technique, the heartbreak\/obsession\/craving disappears, and he can finally think clearly again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
This technique has been my secret weapon and should be a staple in every man\u2019s toolbox.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Now my astute readers will be wondering\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n