Some questions about yesterday\u2019s email\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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\u201cYou mentioned a technique to stop the heartbreak\/obsession\/craving if you’re already over the edge, but you didn’t tell us what the technique was or how to use it. Just wondering.\u201d \u2013 Jim<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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It\u2019s not something I can teach in an email. I walk my clients through the process during our private coaching sessions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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\u201cWhat is the right move when a girl disappears on you?\u201d \u2013 Miller<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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That depends on what prompted the disappearance and what she did\/didn\u2019t do right before it happened.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
But almost always, the correct play is to completely back off and give the situation some space. In most cases, it\u2019s best to wait for the girl to reach out to you first (even if it takes weeks).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Easier said than done, of course. Especially when the panic overtakes you and you trick yourself into thinking you\u2019ll ruin things forever by not calling her immediately.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
But chasing a girl who distanced herself is almost always a bad move that does more harm than good.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
It\u2019s not just about getting your girl back into the picture as quickly as possible. You need her to come back the RIGHT WAY; otherwise, you\u2019ll be upsetting the power balance which all but guarantees she\u2019s gonna walk away for good in the very near future.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I explained this entire strategy in my book \u201cGet Your Girl Back\u201d (you can get a fr-ee copy when you purchase the 7-Day Quick Start Course). The original method was called \u201cShutting Down The Town,\u201d since you would completely disappear while ignoring all of her attempts to contact you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
While it\u2019s a bit harsh, it tends to do the job. Although, some breakup situations are a bit more nuanced and require finesse, as opposed to the nuclear bomb of SDtT.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
For instance, last week I helped 2 of my clients get their girls back into the picture \u2013 one was a long-term fling, and one was a new girl who disappeared after she found out he wasn\u2019t dating her exclusively. A few short text chats were all it took to get things back to normal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And while most situations can be repaired (if you address them early on), sometimes the only way you can save your sanity is to walk away for good. And walking away is much easier when you know you can easily refill your pipeline.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
If you\u2019re currently struggling through a breakup, I would highly recommend offering to take 5 new women through the Mindvana Lite process, which you can do over webcam with girls you meet on dating apps.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
You might find that improves your closing rate dramatically.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And you can go test it out right here:<\/p>\n\n\n\n