A reader is requesting some tippy-tips. I\u2019m happy to oblige\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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\u201cMorning Jay. Do you have any compliance tips you can share?” \u2013 Martin<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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The only two you should focus on are \u201cgood feelings first\u201d and \u201cno big deal.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
When it comes to getting others to happily accept your compliance requests, they\u2019ll be more likely to comply if they\u2019re in a good mood.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
In the PUA world, we call this \u201craising the energy.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
For instance, if you\u2019re about to reach out to a girl and invite her out, it\u2019s always good form to spike her emotions a bit (e.g., make her laugh, tell her an interesting story, etc.) before pitching the date, as opposed to pitching her \u201ccold.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
This process happens quite naturally in Mindvana, since we\u2019re constantly giving our subjects good emotions each time we fire off the triggers we set up (for happiness, sexiness, pleasure, arousal, etc.).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cNo big deal\u201d is about making each of our requests simple and easy to follow, to the point where they don\u2019t even necessitate a second thought. (You can also imply that a request is \u201cno big deal\u201d with your mannerisms, voice tone, etc.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n
If you\u2019re trying to get a girl to leave a club with you, you\u2019ll want to make your request small enough to avoid any possible resistance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cI\u2019m hungry. Come grab a quick slice with me. We\u2019ll be back in 20min.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
You should be telegraphing, \u201cIt\u2019s just a slice of pizza. It\u2019s no big deal.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And then you’ll continue to lead with additional small steps until they\u2019re back at your place with a glass of wine in hand.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Picture a ladder in your mind. Then focus on getting them to climb one rung at a time until they reach the top.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And just like with the Mindvana process, if you get resistance, you\u2019ll back off a bit and then take them in a different direction.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The whole sequence should feel smooth and effortless, especially to the person you\u2019re influencing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And if you want to learn how to smoothly and effortlessly take a girl from \u201clukewarm\u201d to \u201coverwhelmingly aroused\u201d while making her feel incredible from head to toe, you can start studying up right here:<\/p>\n\n\n\n