{"id":504,"date":"2021-05-30T19:23:36","date_gmt":"2021-05-30T19:23:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/learnhypnosisfast.com\/blog\/?p=504"},"modified":"2021-05-30T19:23:38","modified_gmt":"2021-05-30T19:23:38","slug":"hitting-the-reset-button-on-a-strained-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/learnhypnosisfast.com\/blog\/hitting-the-reset-button-on-a-strained-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"Hitting the reset button on a strained relationship"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p> <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I have an advanced strategy for you today courtesy of a recent situation that happened with my crazy ballet girl.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Occasionally, a dating situation will go sideways and require a hard reset.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This might be necessary after a heated argument, after losing contact for a stretch (2-3 weeks), or after a breakup that happened months ago.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The best way to pull off a reset is to meet up for food or drinks and act like nothing ever happened &#8211; you\u2019ll be calm, laid back, in a great mood and impervious to any negative energy she might throw your way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I tend to switch on \u201cself-amusement mode,\u201d where I\u2019ll be joking around, telling stories about my week, and making random comments about what\u2019s happening around us.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Your goal isn\u2019t to lift her mood but to have a good time regardless of how she\u2019s acting. Expect that she won\u2019t be contributing much and might be acting annoyed with the whole situation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Don\u2019t let it register.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At most, you can smirk in reply to a rude or dismissive comment, but make sure nothing rattles you. More than anything else, don\u2019t let things get AWKWARD.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Think of it as a waiting game. In most situations, she\u2019ll be dying to share how she feels about whatever happened, but you\u2019re going to drag things out and build up the tension.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Keep blasting her with positive energy until her walls start to crack. If she still doesn\u2019t budge, you can go ahead and call out the elephant in the room:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u201cI have to say\u2026 you look even sexier when you\u2019re mad at me. I can get used to this.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is her green light to open up. If she doesn\u2019t take the bait, then you can briefly lay out what happened and low-key apologize for your part in it (if necessary).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I stick to this general formula:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u201cSo the other day X happened. And then I did Y. In retrospect, I probably should have handled it differently and did Z, instead. My bad. I didn\u2019t mean to hurt your feelings.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At this point, they\u2019ll usually start dumping out their grievances, which can get a bit intense.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No matter what she says, stay calm and avoid getting defensive. When she\u2019s finished, you can say, \u201cGot it. I appreciate you letting me know how you feel. It won\u2019t happen again.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Then proceed to sweaty makeup se-x.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There\u2019s more you can do, but this sequence is usually enough to reset most situations. Just remember to stay calm and playful and avoid letting her suck you into another fight.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What most guys don\u2019t realize is that 90% of relationship mishaps can be salvaged. And once you have a few saves under your belt, it\u2019ll be much easier for you to stay calm the next time the SHTF.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hope you found that helpful. You\u2019ll find many more ninja-level relationship tactics in the bonus videos that come bundled with Mindvana Gold\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2026like how to covertly shape your woman\u2019s behavior, how to make her fall MORE in love with you over time, and how to turn her into a BJ queen who lives to please you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And you can load up your toolkit right here:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><a href=\"\/mindvana\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">>>>Get Love, Loyalty, and Ride-or-Die Devotion With The Mindvana Method<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ciao for now,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>-Jay<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Instagram: @jaycataldo<br>Twitter: @jaycataldo<br>Youtube: learn hypnosis in nyc<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I have an advanced strategy for you today courtesy of a recent situation that happened with my crazy ballet girl. Occasionally, a dating situation will go sideways and require a hard reset. 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