{"id":513,"date":"2021-06-09T19:59:44","date_gmt":"2021-06-09T19:59:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/learnhypnosisfast.com\/blog\/?p=513"},"modified":"2021-06-09T19:59:48","modified_gmt":"2021-06-09T19:59:48","slug":"the-kiss-of-death-first-date-mistake-that-90-of-men-make","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/learnhypnosisfast.com\/blog\/the-kiss-of-death-first-date-mistake-that-90-of-men-make\/","title":{"rendered":"The kiss of death first date mistake that 90% of men make"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Here\u2019s another pickup tip from the Ashton Kutcher movie I told you about last week.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He\u2019s having a chat with his buddy (who just bombed another approach) and serves up some sage advice:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>===<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Harry: \u201cI fukin&#8217; froze up. I couldn&#8217;t say anything. I &#8212; I started making cricket noises.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>AK: \u201cYou know what your problem is? You care too much. Just say something to piss &#8217;em off.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Harry: \u201cWhy would I want to piss them off?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>AK: \u201cCause once you piss &#8217;em off, you set up the apology. And once you apologize, you look like a sensitive guy.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Harry: &#8220;I am a sensitive guy.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>AK: &#8220;All right, but you&#8217;ve gotta look like a rebel before you look like a sensitive guy.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>===<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Funny enough, I used this approach just yesterday with a girl I met at the workshop. I accidentally insulted her when flirting over facetime and quickly recovered with a half-serious apology.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u201cI was just teasing you. I\u2019m like a 6-year-old. When I see a pretty girl, all I know how to do is yank on her pigtails. Please forgive me.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Acting shockingly polarizing up front is a useful way to grab a woman\u2019s attention. Just make sure to switch out of that mode when she starts showing interest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(On a side note, I promised myself I\u2019d stop trying to wife up girls who live 3000 miles away but still failing miserably. To any tri-state local cuties reading this, hmu if you\u2019d like to accompany me to bible study and grab milkshakes afterwards. Please no strippers, onlyfans entrepreneurs, or lactose intolerants.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Whatever your style, avoid BORING her at all costs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One of the biggest complaints I hear from women is that most guys bore the heck out of them, starting with boring convos on dating apps followed by more boring in-person conversations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you can\u2019t capture and lead a woman\u2019s attention, then you\u2019ll have to settle for dates that go nowhere. No bueno.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And if you wanna learn everything I know about meeting and seducing beautiful girls, then you\u2019ll want to check out the \u201cSeduction Mastery Videos\u201d that I bundled with the \u201cKatie Sessions.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Seduction Mastery was a project I started a few years back but never finished. And instead of letting the vids go to waste, I decided to give them away as fr-ee bonuses to Mindvana students.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Half of them come bundled with Mindvana Gold, and the rest (that ones that teach my seduction strategies) are bundled with the Mindvana Bonus Pack (called \u201cThe Katie Sessions\u201d) which you can get your hands on right here:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/learnhypnosisfast.com\/the-katie-sessions\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">>>>The Katie Sessions (Mindvana Bonus Pack)<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>P.S. I\u2019ll be sharing more seduction tips from the AK flick over the next few days. Stay tuned\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ciao for now,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>-Jay<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Instagram: @jaycataldo<br>Twitter: @jaycataldo<br>Youtube: learn hypnosis in nyc<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Here\u2019s another pickup tip from the Ashton Kutcher movie I told you about last week. He\u2019s having a chat with his buddy (who just bombed another approach) and serves up some sage advice: === Harry: \u201cI fukin&#8217; froze up. I couldn&#8217;t say anything. 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