{"id":517,"date":"2021-06-09T20:06:29","date_gmt":"2021-06-09T20:06:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/learnhypnosisfast.com\/blog\/?p=517"},"modified":"2021-06-09T20:06:32","modified_gmt":"2021-06-09T20:06:32","slug":"the-buddhist-principle-that-turns-a-no-into-a-please-dont-stop","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/learnhypnosisfast.com\/blog\/the-buddhist-principle-that-turns-a-no-into-a-please-dont-stop\/","title":{"rendered":"The Buddhist principle that turns a \u201cno\u201d into a \u201cplease don\u2019t stop\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

We talked about the importance of persistence yesterday. But to make this work effectively (especially when pursuing women), you have to add in a complete lack of neediness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Paradoxical and confusing, I know. I\u2019m gonna break it down.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The Buddhists talk about the importance of having complete detachment to the outcome you\u2019re looking to achieve.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is a bit confusing at first glance because most people equate detachment with \u201cnot caring.\u201d And if you really don\u2019t care about something, then why even bother going after it in the first place?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But you don\u2019t need to have a lack of desire to be detached. It\u2019s about enjoying the process of pursuing your goal without NEEDING anything specific to happen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Think of it as a preference. You would prefer that the girl you\u2019re talking to comes home with you tonight. But you also understand that you\u2019re playing a difficult game and won\u2019t always be successful.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And you\u2019re totally ok with that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You don\u2019t NEED her to come home with you in order to have a fun evening, to not be lonely, to look good to your friends, to feel good about yourself, etc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Think of it like a video game. Each time you pick up the controller you have an objective in mind. But if you don\u2019t achieve it, you can calmly put the controller back down and focus on other things in your life (unless you\u2019ve been playing for 3 days straight hopped-up on energy drinks).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In other words, you\u2019re deriving your enjoyment from simply playing the game and you\u2019re totally fine with whatever happens during that time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Once you get to this place with women, you\u2019ll be projecting a GENUINE lack of need that they\u2019ll sense and respond to.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In one scene in the Ashton Kutcher movie, his ex pulls a power move and pushes him away mid-kiss.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

AK calmly disengages, sits down on the couch and turns on the TV. In his head, he starts slowly counting\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201c1\u2026 2\u2026 3\u2026 4\u2026\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Before he gets to 5, she comes up behind him and starts kissing him again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In pua lingo, this is called a \u201ctakeaway.\u201d And while it\u2019s a solid standalone technique for last minute resistance, I can assure you it works much better when you use it from a state of genuine neediness, since you\u2019ll be telegraphing certain cues (through your body language) that can\u2019t be faked.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The more you can demonstrate (through your vibe) that you don\u2019t NEED se-x from a woman, the more likely she\u2019ll be to throw it at you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The old school Buddhists must have gotten laid like crazy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And if you wanna learn everything I know about meeting and seducing beautiful girls, then you\u2019ll want to check out the \u201cSeduction Mastery Videos\u201d that I bundled with the \u201cKatie Sessions.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Seduction Mastery was a project I started a few years back but never finished. And instead of letting the vids go to waste, I decided to give them away as fr-ee bonuses to Mindvana students.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Half of them come bundled with Mindvana Gold, and the rest (that ones that teach my seduction strategies) are bundled with the Mindvana Bonus Pack (called \u201cThe Katie Sessions\u201d) which you can get your hands on right here:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

>>>The Katie Sessions (Mindvana Bonus Pack)<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

P.S.<\/strong> I\u2019ll be sharing more seduction tips from the AK flick over the next few days. Stay tuned\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ciao for now,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Jay<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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