Someone had a question about yesterday\u2019s email\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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\u201cJay why do you say it\u2019s important to attack someone\u2019s beliefs in the hypnosis chair?\u201d – Christoph<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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In this specific example, I was talking about attacking the beliefs that could make it more challenging to deliver a solid result.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
For instance, before you start working on a client\u2019s elevator phobia, you can first get them to doubt that their problem is insurmountable or that it requires months of therapy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Some clients might even have a belief that \u201chypnosis doesn\u2019t work\u201d or \u201chypnosis doesn\u2019t work on me, personally.\u201d Your sessions will go more smoothly if you loosen up these beliefs, beforehand.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Managing your subject\u2019s expectations is a big part of process. If they expect a miraculous result, you\u2019ll be more likely to deliver one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Additionally, the ability to effortlessly dismantle a belief system has many applications outside the therapy room.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
When it comes to changing someone\u2019s way of thinking, if you can get them to doubt their existing reality, it becomes much easier for you to implant a new reality.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
An example from the pua world is the much-maligned \u201cneg hit\u201d (essentially a backhanded compliment).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Negs were used to make beautiful girls in the club doubt their social status relative to yours, and, in some cases, prompt the girl to qualify herself to gain your approval.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
You can also use this strategy on yourself, as we discussed yesterday. Write down all of your negative beliefs (e.g., it\u2019s hard for me to make money, girls aren\u2019t attracted to me, etc.), and start tearing them to shreds.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
You can use NLP\u2019s meta model to deconstruct them and then list multiple counter examples until the original belief no longer \u201cfeels right\u201d to you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The \u201creframing\u201d video in the Mindvana Home Study Program will teach you how to become great at this. (As a side effect, you\u2019ll also become impossible to argue with.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And if you really want to destroy the belief that \u201cbeautiful women aren\u2019t attracted to me,\u201d then walk a few through the Mindvana process and notice how they start treating you afterwards. This is the only \u201ccounter example\u201d you\u2019ll need to blow that useless belief sky high.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And you can learn everything you need to know right here:<\/p>\n\n\n\n