Some questions came in about humor and how someone can learn to be funny and more playful around women.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Humor isn\u2019t the easiest topic to teach but there are a few \u201ctechniques\u201d that I use religiously that anyone can easily implement.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The first one is “callback humor.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n
When spending time with a new girl, you\u2019ll want to work on creating an \u201cus\u201d frame which consists of shared experiences and shared interests.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
As in \u201cwe like this,\u201d and \u201cwe don\u2019t like that,\u201d vs. \u201cI like this and you like that.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
This leads the girl to start thinking of you as a potential boyfriend. And a big part of this \u201cwe\u2019re a couple\u201d frame is having private jokes that only the two of you understand.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The other day, my Colombian girl asked how my Spanish lessons were coming along. I mentioned I was learning some wacky expressions commonly used in Spain.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
One of them was \u201cme cago en la leche\u201d (I pooped in the milk!), which is the Spanish equivalent of \u201cI sh*t the bed.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
She wrote back: \u201cMe cayo en la leche? JAJAJAJAJA\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cCayo\u201d means \u201cI fell,\u201d which was a typo, since she meant to write \u201ccago.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Anytime a girl makes a mistake with anything at all, you should tease her mercilessly (especially if she\u2019s very attractive). So, of course, I jumped on the opportunity:<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cYou FELL in the milk? What a clumsy girl you are.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Teasing a girl for silly mistakes is one way to keep your interactions light and playful. They also give you opportunities for callback humor, where you start looking for conversational openings to bring up the joke again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The Colombian planned on attending a protest on Monday (which can easily turn violent), so I told her to text me every 30min so I\u2019d know she was ok (a compliance request which also demonstrates a desire to protect her).<\/p>\n\n\n\n