{"id":579,"date":"2021-07-15T19:56:31","date_gmt":"2021-07-15T19:56:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/learnhypnosisfast.com\/blog\/?p=579"},"modified":"2021-07-15T19:56:32","modified_gmt":"2021-07-15T19:56:32","slug":"how-negative-anchoring-is-destroying-your-se-x-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/learnhypnosisfast.com\/blog\/how-negative-anchoring-is-destroying-your-se-x-life\/","title":{"rendered":"How negative anchoring is destroying your se-x life"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>One of the keys to having a solid relationship is making sure both you and your girlfriend\/wife are se-xually satisfied.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Many guys have problems in this area due to a number of factors (like not enough variety or being afraid to \u201cdominate\u201d her) but one of the biggest problems stems from negative anchoring.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019ve studied the Mindvana Method, then you already know how anchoring works. We pair a stimulus (a word, sound, touch, etc.) with a desired response.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mindvana teaches you how to elicit emotional responses like happiness and arousal while connecting them to \u201ctrigger words,\u201d so just saying a particular phrase will instantly re-elicit the response.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And we like to set up triggers for happiness, sexiness, arousal and o-gasm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But what most people don\u2019t realize is that anchoring is a natural process that happens all the time, usually outside of our awareness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And when it comes to a couple\u2019s se-x life, it usually happens in a negative way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Since most guys don\u2019t know how to quickly and easily take their woman from a state of se-xual disinterest to unbearable arousal, they tend to resort to manipulation tactics (guilt trips, passive aggressiveness) to get what they want.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And while doing so is a useful short-term solution, it irreparably damages your relationship over time by linking negative feelings (like reluctance and resentment) to the act of being intimate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Eventually, just the thought of getting naked with you will be enough to trigger feelings of disgust.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No bueno.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The simple solution to this problem is to avoid using manipulation tactics (and any other behaviors which erode attraction and desire) while training your girl to want se-x more than you do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In a healthy relationship the guy should be the one telling his girl, <em>\u201cNot right now. But maybe later.\u201d <\/em>Or, even better,<em> \u201cGo do X thing first and then wait for Daddy in the bedroom.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Good behavior deserves to be rewarded, after all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The good news is that it&#8217;s all much easier than it sounds. And Mindvana will help you make all of it a reality.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><a href=\"\/mindvana\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">>>>Learn how to give women irresistible pleasure and make them addicted to your presence with the Mindvana Method<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>P.S.<\/strong> If you want to learn more about this topic, then definitely check out the \u201cSeduction Mastery Videos\u201d that come bundled with Mindvana Gold. You\u2019ll learn how to maintain your woman\u2019s attraction for you for a lifetime, along with many other useful tactics (like how to shape her behavior and make her addicted to giving you BJs).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ciao for now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>-Jay<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Instagram: @jaycataldo<br>Twitter: @jaycataldo<br>Youtube: learn hypnosis in nyc<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>One of the keys to having a solid relationship is making sure both you and your girlfriend\/wife are se-xually satisfied. Many guys have problems in this area due to a number of factors (like not enough variety or being afraid to \u201cdominate\u201d her) but one of the biggest problems stems from negative anchoring. 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