{"id":593,"date":"2021-09-05T14:03:18","date_gmt":"2021-09-05T14:03:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/learnhypnosisfast.com\/blog\/?p=593"},"modified":"2021-09-05T14:03:21","modified_gmt":"2021-09-05T14:03:21","slug":"rage-in-the-sky-6-miles-high","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/learnhypnosisfast.com\/blog\/rage-in-the-sky-6-miles-high\/","title":{"rendered":"Rage in the sky 6 miles high"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

I had a minor mishap on a plane this week that can be considered both a cautionary tale and an excellent example of one of my most useful \u201crelationship management\u201d strategies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I was flying to see a new girl I\u2019d been chatting up for a few weeks now. Everything was going well between us so far, which meant that chaos was lurking right around the corner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Because where there\u2019s girls, there\u2019s drama.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I don\u2019t remember the specifics, but I may have mentioned my plans to also spend time with other \u201cfriends\u201d during the trip, which prompted her to lose her marbles and tell me to go f myself via whatsapp.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Since I was due to land in less than 2 hours, my brain immediately snapped me into \u201cgotta fix this\u201d mode, where a guy says to himself:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cIf I make my points clearly and concisely, then the frantic female will most certainly see the folly of her ways. I must now assuage her rage with an epic array of persuasive sentences.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

But right before I could switch on my million dollar mouthpiece, the internet on the plane dropped out, shutting down all communication between us.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019d be lying if I said I wasn\u2019t the least bit rattled.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But, in retrospect, it was divine intervention because \u201cgotta fix this\u201d mode is one of the worst modes to be in when dealing with women. And this is because their anger shuts down their ability to take in new information, let alone see the situation from your point of view.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Instead of frantically running your mouth, the correct play, almost always, is to sit back and wait for their anger to dissipate. Once their emotional state has shifted, you can go back in and work things out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s tough to play the waiting game, especially when your stomach is doing flip-flops and your brain is screaming \u201cyou need to fix this NOW!\u201d But there\u2019s nothing you can say that\u2019s more effective than waiting for your girl to calm down.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Anyhoo, as soon as I landed, my phone started blowing up again. But now I was getting messages like \u201cdid you land yet\u201d and \u201ctext me so I know you\u2019re ok.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And when I finally got to my hotel, I found her waiting in the lobby, desperate to apologize for her lapse in judgement.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Of course, the internet outage wasn\u2019t the only helpful variable in play. We also have to factor in the social proof from other females just as beautiful as her, and the fear of missing out\/losing to the competition.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But a big part of it was that I didn\u2019t respond to her freak-out by saying something that would have looked needy or lowered my value.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So the next time you find yourself in panic mode, take a second to breathe and say to yourself:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cThis doesn\u2019t need to be addressed right this moment. Let me disengage so we both have time to calm down.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Simple enough. But incredibly useful.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019ll be discussing another quirk of female emotions tomorrow. Stay tuned\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ciao for now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Jay<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Instagram: @jaycataldo
Twitter: @jaycataldo
Youtube: learn hypnosis in nyc<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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