I explained yesterday how a woman\u2019s emotional state can thwart your best persuasion attempts, along with the importance of letting her anger dissipate before trying to work out your issues.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
For most women, their emotions completely shape their perception of reality in a way that most men have trouble understanding.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
As one female relationship coach put it, \u201cWomen can\u2019t act counter to their feelings, therefore they are incapable of having honor the way a man can. How they feel at any given moment determines the \u201ccorrect\u201d behavior in that moment.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The example she gives is that a woman would have no qualms about letting a tiger eat her best friend if she were feeling \u201cbad\u201d about her in that moment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Yikes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Additionally, when a woman is feeling bad, she\u2019s likely to believe everything in her life is going badly. Therefore, one of the most useful things I teach my female clients is how to view a negative emotion like a \u201ccheck engine light\u201d on a car\u2019s dashboard.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
It\u2019s a warning that there MAY be something wrong with the situation. So she should investigate further without jumping to erroneous conclusions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Once she understands this, she\u2019ll be less likely to construct a negative story about the uncomfortable situation and simply wait for the feeling to dissipate so she can think clearly again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
But since most ladies lack this understanding, this unfortunate quirk of female nature is something you should be very concerned about, especially if you desire to have a successful long-term relationship or (gulp) marriage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
It was the wise prophet, Edward Murphy, who shed light on the insidious and destructive \u201cwhat have you done for me lately\u201d phenomenon and how it dooms women to a life of near-permanent dissatisfaction.<\/p>\n\n\n\n