There\u2019s so much gold in this (lengthy) email, you can take it to the pawn shop. Enjoy\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I have an update on the crazy European girl, and it\u2019s quite the cautionary tale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
One that just might save your life one day. No exaggeration.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
But before we take the scenic route through the depths of depravity, some good news\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I hung out with the Russian yoga teacher on Saturday and all went well. Miami has opened up and is just as beautiful as ever (minus the rioting).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I posted some of the highlights to my Instagram story if you\u2019re curious. (insta: @jaycataldo) Let\u2019s just say it was a great way to break my quarantine fast.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
(Side note: I have no desire to get political and talk about what\u2019s going on. I prefer to be an entertaining distraction from all the chaos.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Getting back to my overseas-admirer, I decided to let her read the emails she inspired. And not too surprisingly, she was quite impressed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
She confirmed I was spot-on about everything, and was also genuinely happy that her sex-y saga sparked some product sales.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
She might be the best muse I\u2019ve ever had.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Case in point, during yesterday\u2019s Mindvana session via whatsapp, her dirty mouth birthed yet another gem of a blurb:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cPlease tell me that I\u2019m turning you on, too. I feel weird saying this\u2026 but it feels like a fu*king privilege to be the one making you hard. OMG you just got the headline for your next email. ;)\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Such a little helper.<\/p>\n\n\n\n So here we go. Read this slowly and carefully and let it all soak in\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n In the latest Mindvana Gold video, I shared a list of warning signs to look out for when choosing a potential mate. (As I’ve said numerous times, proper mate selection is the key to having amazing relationships).<\/p>\n\n\n\n Out of the entire list, the following 4 signs are, arguably, the most important of all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Because they can help you easily identity girls with Borderline Personality Disorder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n (Note: If you don\u2019t know why BDP women should be avoided like the plague, do some googling and read up on the horror stories.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n As you may have suspected, the European girl has all 4 (and many more). I spotted them early on, then confirmed my suspicions with my patented \u201cCIA routine.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n And before I spill the beans on what she did to her poor boyfriend, let me first share the 4 warning signs that can protect you from a similar fate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Warning sign #1:<\/strong> A history of severe childhood abuse<\/p>\n\n\n\n I\u2019m not talking about the occasional spanking for leaving dirty dishes in the sink. I\u2019m talking about molestation, severe beatings, incest, witnessing a parent attempt suicide, etc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The DARK stuff that\u2019ll convince the staunchest of atheists that our world is inhabited by legit demons.<\/p>\n\n\n\n These events leave severe emotional scars which often develop into BDP and other personality disorders. Even the most seasoned therapists throw their hands up in the air at these cases, because they have no way to truly help.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sure, they\u2019ll run them through the system for years, but these poor girls rarely see their conditions improve. Traditional therapeutic protocols are mostly useless for this level of severe trauma.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Warning sign #2:<\/strong> Personality flip-flopping<\/p>\n\n\n\n This is the easiest one to spot (since they may lie about the others). During one of our text chats, she was once-again complaining about her boyfriend, so I told her to knock it off.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The fangs immediately came out. She told me to go F myself, before resorting to guilt tripping and threatening to never speak to me again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n BPD\u2019s have a severe fear of abandonment. But their pathology leads them to do anything in their power to MAKE their men abandon them. It\u2019s quite a strange paradox.<\/p>\n\n\n\n When you see this type of extreme personality flipping (aka: major over-reactions and extreme vindictiveness), it\u2019s safe to assume BDP, bipolar disorder, or something else on the spectrum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n (TIP: When they pull this crap, call their bluff and completely ignore them until they reach out to you again.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n Warning Sign #3:<\/strong> Psychotropic meds<\/p>\n\n\n\n Psychiatrists will often dose these girls with heavy anti-psychotics (typically more than one). Their pharm cocktail helps keep a lid on the crazy, but only for a short while. The pot will eventually boil over.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Warning Sign #4: <\/strong>Multiple suicide attempts<\/p>\n\n\n\n These girls often weaponize suicide as a means for getting attention. When a girl has multiple attempts under her belt, she\u2019s often using them for control purposes \u2013 control over her environment and, sometimes, over specific people in her life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n And while not every girl who\u2019s attempted suicide will have BPD, almost every BPD girl you\u2019ll meet will have at least 1 attempt under her belt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n A BPD girl is also likely to threaten to end their life if their partner leaves them. This helps them control even the most callous of players, because nobody wants a suicide on their conscience.<\/p>\n\n\n\n So there you have it. If you come across a girl who checks any of these boxes, RUN, don\u2019t walk, to the nearest exit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Playing the BPD game is similar to playing the Game of Thrones. Except the only way you can win is by stepping away from the board.<\/p>\n\n\n\n When you choose to play this game, you either lose or you die. It\u2019s about as much fun as banging your sister.<\/p>\n\n\n\n (That\u2019s a GOT joke, in case you haven\u2019t seen the show. lol)<\/p>\n\n\n\n Many guys who try to date these girls will end up on hard drugs, lose their businesses, end up in jail for assault, and even commit suicide, themselves. Consider yourself forewarned.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Now please pardon me as I continue to beat this dead horse for your benefit\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n BPD girls are dangerous because they\u2019re extremely ADDICTIVE. They\u2019re often super-hot and the sex is like a drug. They\u2019ll make all your crazy por*n fantasies come true and help you think up 10 new ones.<\/p>\n\n\n\n This is how they trap you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n You cannot help them. You cannot fix them. You do not have one of the \u201cgood\u201d ones. At best, she\u2019s just hiding her power level until she has you fully hooked.<\/p>\n\n\n\n But there will come a time when the devil inside her will show its face. And unless you\u2019ve got the demon-slaying skills of Keanu in \u201cConstantine,\u201d prepare for your soul to be harvested and devoured by Mr. Louie Cyphre, himself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Even a seasoned slut-whisperer (like yours truly) should flee in terror, even though I know exactly what it takes to manage them – I literally wrote THE book on mind games and manipulation tactics.<\/p>\n\n\n\n But whether or not you pack weapons of mass destruction in your lunchbox, you should never treat a BPD girl like shi*t or play with her emotions (even if she deserves it).<\/p>\n\n\n\n The threat of severe retaliation notwithstanding, it\u2019s straight-up bad karma. And whether or not you believe in her, Karma is the queen of crazy BPD bitches, and she most certainly believes in YOU.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Stay off her radar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n So\u2026 that\u2019s how you determine whether or not your girl is harboring a demonic entity. Now let me share an example of what can happen if you foolishly let your guard down.<\/p>\n\n\n\n This is a relatively tame BPD story, as many guys fare far worse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Last week, I was up to my usual Mindvana-ing, enflaming this lusty chica\u2019s insatiable desires. Since Jay Cataldo was a million miles away, she started begging her boyfriend for se-x. But he turned her down, yet again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n To sooth her wounded pride, she marched straight to the liquor cabinet, reached for the scotch, and pounded back shots until she couldn\u2019t see straight.<\/p>\n\n\n\n She then used her iPad to message a coworker, asking if she could stop by for a friendly game of Angry Birds. Told her bf she\u2019d be back in an hour.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 2 hours later, bf\u2019s spidey-sense starts tingling. He checks her iPad and discovers the raunchy convo she just had with her coworker.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Minutes later, our disheveled heroine stumbles through the front door, armed with an assortment of flimsy excuses. Crumbling under the pressure of his interrogation, she quickly fessed up to her sins.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Emotions erupt. Screaming ensues. In her drunken state, our fair maiden takes a tumble down the stairs, fracturing her unfaithful foot in three places.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Her hysterical squeals bring the bf back under her spell. An armistice is agreed upon and he proceeds to drive her to the hospital. Her foot gets a boot. But instead of booting her out, he gifts her with a second chance. The end.<\/p>\n\n\n\n A most beautiful love story if I’ve ever heard one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n I can almost assure you that her scheming subconscious mind orchestrated her stairway slip-up. Either way, it\u2019s a quite impressive (if not devious) way of regaining control.<\/p>\n\n\n\n And remember, none of this happened because the bf was abusive to her in any way\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n It happened because he unknowingly shacked up with a BPD girl. And this is just what they do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Mistake #2 was withholding se-x from a se-x addict. But when you\u2019re holding a bomb with multiple fuses, you only need to light one to set it off.<\/p>\n\n\n\n He seems to be treating her rather well now because she\u2019s temporarily crippled. Apparently \u201che\u2019s trying his best to forgive me and just needs some time to get over it.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n But what would happen then? Might she learn her lesson and spend the rest of her life trying to make amends?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Um\u2026 well\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n The next day he allegedly made a racially-charged comment, leading her to believe that he\u2019s secretly an evil white supremist. She demanded he pack up his stuff and peace out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n I believe these were my exact words to her:<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cHey crazy\u2026 you do realize you\u2019re not white, right? How racist can the dude be if he\u2019s been dating a brown girl like you for years?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n But this is an unreasonable inquiry, on my part. I asked her a logical question about an illogical process.<\/p>\n\n\n\n You see, when a woman wants to leave you, she\u2019ll begin the process of gathering evidence in order to make a case against you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Why?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Before she can end her relationship, she needs to convince the judge and jury (i.e., her friends and family) that her actions are just and warranted.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 9 times out of 10, no legitimate evidence exists (besides the flimsy \u201cI don\u2019t feel the same way anymore\u201d). So she\u2019ll start \u201cplanting\u201d evidence by twisting anything you do or say into something that aligns with her narrative.<\/p>\n\n\n\n And if you\u2019re a sparkly-clean choir boy, then she\u2019ll keep pushing your buttons HARD until you inevitably spazz out and do\/say something stupid.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Congrats. You\u2019ve now given her justification for ending the relationship that\u2019s convincing enough to garner the support of her social network. And you\u2019d best believe she will lord it over you for the rest of your life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n I talk about this process extensively in my book \u201cGet Your Girl Back.\u201d I also teach the most effective way to protect yourself from a woman\u2019s relentless persecution and slip right back into the power seat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n This book is no longer for sale. But here\u2019s the good news\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n