One of our members shares his thoughts on limiting beliefs…
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“I can relate to this. I was told in my very early years from my Dad to work hard. It was a classic Rich Dad Poor Dad moment. Except i didn’t have a rich dad to mentor me. I really didn’t start to question things until my early 20’s. At that time i was only getting “clues”.
It wasn’t until i hit about 40 years that i took things seriously about change. The recession of 2008-2009 hit and it was an eye opener. It wasn’t just finances but also the social part of my life, the self that needed improvement. My relationship was also not as good as i wanted it to be.
Learning about these things (like Mindvana) has truly shown me that there is much more to be experienced. This is improving one aspect of my life. Thanks Jay!” – Rich
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Thanks for your email. 2 quick comments…
First, hard work is absolutely vital for success. Tim Ferris sold the lazy man’s dream with the “4-Hour Workweek.” But he forgot to mention that is takes hundreds (maybe thousands) of hours to set things up so you can eventually keep your business afloat with a few hours of weekly maintenance.
You”ll also need to work hard on the right projects, so you don’t end up spinning your wheels for years. And once you uncover them, you’ll be enjoying yourself so much that it’ll feel like you’re hardly working.
Regarding your social life, in addition to incorporating the Mindvana techniques into all of your interactions with women, I also recommend working on dismantling your limiting beliefs about women and dating, whatever they might be. As you do this, you should also be working on desensitizing yourself to female beauty.
But you can’t do this by staring at pictures all day until you’re bored… you have to train in the real world.
Guy’s need to understand that there’s no getting around this step, because they won’t just wake up one day and find themselves desensitized, especially if they’ve been putting women on a pedestal for most of their lives.
I remember a hypnotist telling a story about doing an impromptu high school show where someone asked him to hypnotize the prom queen.
She was so attractive that his nerves got the best of him and he completely screwed up the performance due to not being able to think straight.
Being a 60-year-old man and still getting flustered abound 18-yo’s isn’t necessarily a big deal. Unless, of course, you’re interested in dating attractive girls who are 5, 10, 15, or 20 years younger than you.
Women want you to be BETTER than them in all areas. And part of this is believing that you have more value than the woman you’re interested in.
But it’s tough to demonstrate this when you can’t calmly look her in the eye without losing your sh*t.
No doubt about it, female beauty is like a drug. And while beautiful girls most certainly enjoy the power their beauty affords them, they tend to become attracted to men who appear to be IMMUNE to their charms, rather than the “lightweights” that act stoned out of their gourds from the slightest whiff of flirtatious behavior.
In fact, the beauty queens tend to become obsessed with men who treat them just like regular girls.
The good news is that you can train yourself to do this. And the first step is training yourself to enjoy their beauty while remaining unaffected by it.
One of the most effective old-school ways of doing this is hitting up bars and clubs a few days a week and forcing yourself to talk to the most beautiful women in the venue. And another great (but even more challenging) method is daygame, where you approach and chat up random girls on the street.
But since covid put the kibosh on all the fun stuff, you’ll have to be creative.
Another way is to take up photography as a hobby. Having girls pose for you nude while you bark orders at them sets up a fantastic frame which helps recondition your mind for dating success.
My #1 suggestion would be to run your very own Mindvana-type project.
I taught a select group of my private coaching clients how to do this, and they now have models showing up at their houses for their weekly doses of hypnotic lovin.
This is the most expensive option (since you’ll need camera equipment, etc.) but unless you work at a modeling agency (or a strip club) or you like throwing parties on your yacht, I can’t think of a better way of surrounding yourself with beautiful girls who are eager to explore their sexuality with you.
But before you can set all of that up, you’ll need to know a thing or two about hypnosis (and especially how to blow their minds by overloading their pleasure receptors with hypnotic o-gasms).
And you can learn exactly how to do this right here…
>>>How to use Mindvana to get love, loyalty, and ride-or-die devotion from the women you desire
P.S. And speaking of having a kick-ass dating life, I have some good news coming your way next week about the missing “Seduction Mastery” videos from Mindvana Gold. Stay tuned…
Ciao for now,
-Jay
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