One of my old clients just reached out for some relationship advice.
To put things in context, he’s a member of the SAS (basically the British equivalent of the Navy Seals) and has spent years getting his hands dirty in the Middle East.
He’s a real real bad-ass. And quite the gentleman, to boot.
And while “Ron” has no trouble attracting women, his relationships tend to falter right around the one-year mark.
I won’t bore you will the details of his latest challenge, but he mentioned something I found quite interesting…
“Jay, of all the advice you’ve given me over the years, the one tip that had the biggest impact on me was this: sometimes the girl just isn’t good for you and you have to let her go.”
This one surprised me since, on the surface, it seems so obvious and trite. Most guys are far more impressed by the ninja-level pickup and “Get Your Girl Back” strategies.
But we can chalk this up to his military mindset.
When you’re part of one of the most elite fighting units in the world, you’re going to have certain attitudes firmly installed in your noggin – such as:
“Accomplish. The. Mission. No excuses. Just get it DONE, whatever it takes.”
And while this attitude is golden when it comes to hostage extraction and 4am raids on the local drug kingpin’s secret compound, when applied to relationship challenges it can be more dangerous than a squib load in your C8 carbine.
And the reason is… sometimes the only correct move is calling it quits and walking away.
As simple as it sounds, when applied properly (and at the right time), it works like gangbusters to reset a lopsided power dynamic. In fact, it works so well that I wrote an entire book about it.
But regardless of how fast this makes your girl run back to you, sometimes the best long-term play is slamming the door in her face and welding it shut for good.
And this terrifies guys like Ron, partly because it’s so painful to lose someone you care about, and partly because it makes you feel like a failure.
But sometimes, long-term success necessitates walking away from an impossible conflict.
I mentioned yesterday how most of today’s “strong and independent wimmins” just don’t have what it takes to be wifey material. When you remove religion (and the desire to serve a power greater than yourself) from the equation and substitute it with solipsistic narcissism, you have a solid recipe for societal collapse.
Many years back when I wrote “Get Your Girl Back,” I used to offer coaching calls to guys who needed additional help applying the strategies.
And I can’t tell you how many times my complex and detailed analysis of their relationships sounded just like this:
“Bro… straight up… your girl sucks balls. Yeah, I can help you get her back, but she’s gonna make you miserable and it’s not worth it. Start looking for her replacement.”
Very few would heed my warnings because they were caught up in the drama of the game. But what guys like my SAS bud have to realize is that, sometimes, the best play is getting up and walking away from the board.
But you can’t just sit around and hope that the void gets magically filled on its own. You gotta suit up and start looking for baby momma 2.0.
When a man is serious about finding the Stepford Wife of his dreams, there are lots of useful steps he can take; one of which is learning how to become attractive to the women he desires.
Sure, looks do matter to some degree. But what women REALLY look for is a particular set of male behaviors that ring her baby-making bells. And these behaviors can be LEARNED and utilized by anyone willing to put the time in.
And before you start bitching and moaning about covid and how “it’s so hard to meet people now and whhhaaaaaaaahhh!” let me tell you this…
90% of guys have already completely checked out. And because of this, there’s now an exorbitant number of women literally STARVING for male attention and affection.
Insta likes don’t do much to stave off their cravings – they need REAL-WORLD attention (which is getting harder to come by these days).
From my vantage point, this is a huge opportunity for guys who know how to approach women in an attractive manner and convey a se-xual vibe from the get-go.
Why?
Because female desperation is making them even more receptive to cold approaches then ever before.
And since most guys act like chicken-sh*t pussies, you have a HUGE opportunity right in front of your face.
Lockdown or not, there are still plenty of ways to meet attractive women that don’t involve downloading the latest dating app (which will serve you up scraps and NOT the girls you truly want to be with).
So you can either pu**sy out and put your dating life on hold until “things go back to normal,” or you can man up and decide to do whatever’s necessary to THRIVE during this current predicament.
Maybe the vaccine will make 2021 look just like 2019. But if I were you, I’d prepare myself for worst case scenario.
Study up, learn the skills, and go make it happen.
Sure, talking to sexy girls can be a bit scary at first, but it sure beats raiding bunkers and disarming IED’s in Afghanistan.
Look, if you’d rather risk your life running special ops in war-torn countries than talk to girls, then be my guest.
But risking a few weekly hours of your designated TV time to work on your love life is really no risk at all – especially when you have a system that can make you wildly successful.
Case in point, the second batch of my “Seduction Mastery Videos” are launching on Monday. And you can find the first the first batch bundled with the GOLD edition of Mindvana.
So when you’re ready to adopt a mindset of “winning, not whining,” then the link below will set off a chain-reaction of multiple explosions.
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Ciao for now,
-Jay
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