Some emails came in regarding the feminist who fantasizes about being used and discarded by men…
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“Jay I can see this being so true. That bitchy exterior is just a coping strategy.” – Dale
“That girl was right to be frustrated No woman likes a pushover.” – Felicia
“Nancy Friday wrote a few books about female fantasies. Most men would be thoroughly shocked at some of the stuff that turns them on.” – Rafay
“Hi Jay. Many years ago I saw all this Fem and Metoo crap coming because I used to see how it was young men pushing the prams while the women just walked in front of them.
But now these young men and some older are total wimps for women and we can see where its all going and gone. I have always treated my woman kind and loving but will never let her walk all over me.
The one you mention in your letter would think me a raging lunatic if she tried her crap on me because there would be instant nuclear retaliation and I would walk away without even a blink.
If they think for one minute they are in control you already lost. Women need to know men can get on happily without them and thats what makes them stay with you.
It’s the wimps that are as much to blame as the Fems in today’s society.” – John
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Instant nuclear retaliation. It’s got a nice ring to it.
There’s no such thing as a “games-free” relationship. Women love to play games, no matter what they say.
Not only that, but they desire a man who knows the rules and can BEAT them every time.
One game you can play is called “double the bullsh*t.”
For example, one of my girls acted like a jackass last week, then disappeared for a few days before reaching out again, but only because she wanted something.
In return, I’ll be ignoring her and cancelling a Miami trip we had planned. And I’ll continue to ignore her until she reaches out again with the proper tone.
And if she decides not to play by the rules, then she’ll never hear from me again.
In other words, you give them back twice as much BS as they’ve given you.
It ain’t easy, though. Most guys who put on a tough-guy front will end up breaking down when their bluff gets called. But it’s silly to give in because, as John said, “if they think they’re in control, then you already lost.”
And that’s when they’ll begin treating you like absolute dirt, so you can’t let it get to that point.
Sadly, sometimes the only move on the board is banishing your girl from your life.
Again, it’s never easy. There’s a lot of pain in this game (unless you’re a stone-cold sociopath).
But unless she knows you have (and are willing to use) nuclear weapons, she’ll never respect you.
Now, one of the most important components of your nuclear arsenal is the belief that you can easily replace a misbehaving woman, no matter how special or unique she might be.
And the Gold version of Mindvana will give you all the tools you’ll need to do just that.
Ciao for now,
-Jay
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