I started working with a new Mindvana girl back in December. A cute little masseuse.
She was pretty, but definitely not the prettiest of the new batch. And from what I know about her so far, she’s not relationship material and I doubt we’d even be compatible.
But there’s just something about her. She gives me the warm fuzzies.
And because the universe also loves to play “silly buggers,” the one I liked most of all was the one that randomly stopping replying to my texts. Straight-up ghosted me.
I find this funny when this happens to me because I literally wrote the ghosting bible back before it was even a thing.
I like to think of myself as a pioneer of strategic and pre-emptive ghosting.
“Bi*ch, do you even know who you’re dealing with?!?” lol
But it happens to the best of us.
This is the one who prompted the avalanche of new leads, which turned out to be not such a bright idea. It’s nearly impossible to juggle 18 girls at once – you can’t even get their names straight.
(Although, consider which attractive qualities you’re conveying to the lingerie model when you get her confused with someone else.)
Anyhoo, as hectic as it was, the scheduling chaos certainly helped me get my mind off miss masseusey.
It also made it much easier to implement the proper response to girls pulling back, which is:
YOU must pull back even harder. Stop chasing and completely withdraw your attention.
Easier said than done – especially when you start catching feelings for a girl.
But it’s almost always the right play. Especially since women don’t typically disappear unless there’s another guy in the picture. You have better things to do than chase some girl who’s not that into you.
And, of course, pushing her out of your head is much easier to pull off when you have other girls in your pipeline. You can drop the offender in the discard pile and start focusing on the next one.
The trick to this is convincing yourself that she just got hit by a bus and you’ll never see her again. In other words, you can’t be sitting around waiting for her to reach out.
And if she eventually does, you should be wary, like, “Who buried this dead chick in the Pet Semetary?”
If you made an impression on her, she’ll usually come back around when things with the other guy fizzle out but don’t count on this.
In the meantime, whenever she pops back up in your thoughts, immediately push her out again. You can use the deepening exercise I teach in Mindvana Lite for this (the one with the movie screen).
Yes, you can use these techniques on yourself to train your frantic mind to calm down and behave like a good boy.
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P.S. The whole point of the story was that this particular girl popped back up this week and I’ll be seeing her in an hour. It appears I might have been gifted a chance at Red Dead Redemption.
P.P.S. But I’m wary. Will she be responsive or completely shut down? Will she scratch my eyes out like that undead kitty from the movie? Is the universe planning on buggering me, yet again? So many questions. Stay tuned…
-Jay
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