I have an advanced strategy for you today courtesy of a recent situation that happened with my crazy ballet girl.
Occasionally, a dating situation will go sideways and require a hard reset.
This might be necessary after a heated argument, after losing contact for a stretch (2-3 weeks), or after a breakup that happened months ago.
The best way to pull off a reset is to meet up for food or drinks and act like nothing ever happened – you’ll be calm, laid back, in a great mood and impervious to any negative energy she might throw your way.
I tend to switch on “self-amusement mode,” where I’ll be joking around, telling stories about my week, and making random comments about what’s happening around us.
Your goal isn’t to lift her mood but to have a good time regardless of how she’s acting. Expect that she won’t be contributing much and might be acting annoyed with the whole situation.
Don’t let it register.
At most, you can smirk in reply to a rude or dismissive comment, but make sure nothing rattles you. More than anything else, don’t let things get AWKWARD.
Think of it as a waiting game. In most situations, she’ll be dying to share how she feels about whatever happened, but you’re going to drag things out and build up the tension.
Keep blasting her with positive energy until her walls start to crack. If she still doesn’t budge, you can go ahead and call out the elephant in the room:
“I have to say… you look even sexier when you’re mad at me. I can get used to this.”
This is her green light to open up. If she doesn’t take the bait, then you can briefly lay out what happened and low-key apologize for your part in it (if necessary).
I stick to this general formula:
“So the other day X happened. And then I did Y. In retrospect, I probably should have handled it differently and did Z, instead. My bad. I didn’t mean to hurt your feelings.”
At this point, they’ll usually start dumping out their grievances, which can get a bit intense.
No matter what she says, stay calm and avoid getting defensive. When she’s finished, you can say, “Got it. I appreciate you letting me know how you feel. It won’t happen again.”
Then proceed to sweaty makeup se-x.
There’s more you can do, but this sequence is usually enough to reset most situations. Just remember to stay calm and playful and avoid letting her suck you into another fight.
What most guys don’t realize is that 90% of relationship mishaps can be salvaged. And once you have a few saves under your belt, it’ll be much easier for you to stay calm the next time the SHTF.
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Ciao for now,
-Jay
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