How to ask a girl for a BJ on the first date

I saw this subject line in my inbox today and it made me lol.

It wasn’t too long ago that I was obsessed with learning “secret tricks” like this that would give me about a 1 in 10 chance of closing the deal.

(Doesn’t sound like much but any improvement over a 0 in 10 chance was greatly appreciated.)

Yeah, I used to be God-awful with women for so many years. But I put the work in to get better – and not just with women but in all areas of my life

At this point, I’ve achieved 80% of my life goals with a few more left to go.

When I first started out on this journey, I set the bar EXTREMELY LOW for myself.

“Go talk to that pretty girl for 20 seconds without peeing your pants.”

But after picking up speed I would set incrementally larger goals for myself until I achieved one of my childhood dreams.

You see, as a kid, even more than wanting to ride a rocket to the moon, I wanted to, one day, have the ability to blackmail a sexy female politician.

And while the contents of my hard drive wouldn’t exactly put Hunter Biden’s to shame, let’s just say he would certainty throw a fist bump my way.

Shameful, I know.

Thankfully, as I started to mature a tiny bit, I started setting far less douchey goals for myself, one of which led to the birth of Mindvana and all the good (and not-so-good) things that followed.

But as long as my list of successes are, I have an even longer list of failures.

If you heard my life story you would probably agree that I’m the poster boy for “failing forward.”

Very slowly, that is. As in millimeters at a time.

It’s been said that I make a three-toed sloth look like a cheetah on Adderall. I can’t disagree.

In fact, as I’m back in the laboratory testing out some new Mindvana material, I’ve noticed that I still continue to make massive blunders which have the venerable Dr. Poosy acquiring as to why I hate my penis so much.

I fail my ass off at nearly everything I try. And because I’m too stubborn to give up, I eventually start succeeding miraculously.

It’s almost like these 2 concepts are somehow intertwined, like 2 sides of a coin or something. (Might have to look into this one day.)

And speaking of Mindvana 2.0…

A lot of guys have asked me when it will be available.

Sad news. I have no plans to release any new products at this time. I worked my butt off all year and was able to finally release the Mindvana bonus pack and the Loving Obsession Protocol, plus I started teaching how to modify the Mindvana process so guys can find, seduce, and date beautiful models and toss Tinder and Bumble in the garbage.

Right now, I’m relaxing a bit while continuing to do what I’ve always done: keep testing new approaches while filming all of my “experiments” in case I end up with something worthy.

In the meantime, I continue to share my bleeding edge discoveries with my private coaching clients, which is another perk of working with me 1-on-1.

But if you’re not ready to level-up at lighting speed by becoming one of my clients, then you should still get started on the process of failing forward, especially if you have any desire to fill your hard drive up with cough tasteful videos of your romantic conquests.

And if you especially hate to fail at anything, then you might want to start with Mindvana Lite, which is the closest thing I have to a foolproof protocol.

Just read off the script I made for you and watch the fireworks happen.

So… if you hate your penis less than I hate mine, and you’re willing to prove it to him, you can go ahead and do so right here:

>>>Get your hands on the simple hypnosis sequence that not only delivers expert-level results, but makes the women around you stand single-file to be next in line

P.S. Never ask for a BJ. Learn to lead smoothly and it’ll happen automatically. OR, you can just make your date out-of-her-mind horny with Mindvana and get the same result. It’s good to have options.

Ciao for now,


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