I spent this past weekend with a new girl who’s the polar opposite of the crazy ballet dancer.
Whereas the first one is moody, entitled and erratic, the new one is sweet, easy going, always smiling, and is grateful for every little thing I do and every dollar I spend on her.
Possible wifey material, for sure.
Now the ballet girl is on multiple medications to treat multiple mood disorders, so there’s nothing surprising about her behavior.
She’s also a ton of fun to hang with when she’s at her best, which almost makes up for all the b.s. on the flip side.
Almost, but not quite.
If you value your sanity, you should steer clear of girls like her, especially if they have no desire to improve themselves.
As you’ve heard me say a million times, when it comes to having a successful relationship, mate selection is 80% of the game.
And while it’s possible to date these girls casually and not get attached, many guys will end up wifing up crazy for 3 reasons:
- She’s usually super hot (or more attractive than any of his other options).
- His “protector part” gets activated (making him feel a strong desire to take care of her).
- He gets addicted to her unpredictability (the mood spikes, the mind games and the manipulation attempts).
Sure, the se-x also tends to be more fun with the crazy girls but not always. And you can always train your “innocent” girl to do backflips, if you so desire (although, your odds of finding a truly innocent girl in current year are infinitesimal).
But if you want to have a happy life, look for a girl who has values similar to yours, along with PREDICTABLE behaviors.
Yes, you might think she’s “boring” compared to the party girls. But you’ll be much happier once you train yourself to enjoy a low-key, low-maintenance girl.
It also helps to desensitize yourself to female beauty (so you stop pedestalizing hot women), and learn how to switch off your emotions on command (so you can make rational decisions under pressure).
If not, a skillful manipulator can walk into your life and have you completely wrapped around her finger.
As the French like to say, “A hair of pu$$y pulls more than a cart of oxen,” or something like that.
And if you do decide to shun my advice and date a crazy ballet girl of your own, then at least use the opportunity to become a stronger, more dominant man.
Since these girls will shit test you relentlessly, you’ll have multiple opportunities to toughen up.
When a woman tests you, stay calm and monitor your reactions. Ask yourself:
Am I acting too needy or showing jealousy?
Am I letting her nasty comments offend me?
Am I refusing to spank her when she misbehaves?
Yes, it’ll feel like you’re trapped in the octagon with 20 of the world’s best fighters. But with a little luck, you’ll emerge a BEAST.
But be careful. It’s a dangerous game.
Again, if you’re going to keep these girls around, realize that their only purpose is to help you improve and become a more attractive man. Do not date them seriously, unless you’re a masochist who secretly hates himself.
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Ciao for now,
-Jay
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