A reader is requesting some tippy-tips. I’m happy to oblige…
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“Morning Jay. Do you have any compliance tips you can share?” – Martin
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The only two you should focus on are “good feelings first” and “no big deal.”
When it comes to getting others to happily accept your compliance requests, they’ll be more likely to comply if they’re in a good mood.
In the PUA world, we call this “raising the energy.”
For instance, if you’re about to reach out to a girl and invite her out, it’s always good form to spike her emotions a bit (e.g., make her laugh, tell her an interesting story, etc.) before pitching the date, as opposed to pitching her “cold.”
This process happens quite naturally in Mindvana, since we’re constantly giving our subjects good emotions each time we fire off the triggers we set up (for happiness, sexiness, pleasure, arousal, etc.).
“No big deal” is about making each of our requests simple and easy to follow, to the point where they don’t even necessitate a second thought. (You can also imply that a request is “no big deal” with your mannerisms, voice tone, etc.)
If you’re trying to get a girl to leave a club with you, you’ll want to make your request small enough to avoid any possible resistance.
“I’m hungry. Come grab a quick slice with me. We’ll be back in 20min.”
You should be telegraphing, “It’s just a slice of pizza. It’s no big deal.”
And then you’ll continue to lead with additional small steps until they’re back at your place with a glass of wine in hand.
Picture a ladder in your mind. Then focus on getting them to climb one rung at a time until they reach the top.
And just like with the Mindvana process, if you get resistance, you’ll back off a bit and then take them in a different direction.
The whole sequence should feel smooth and effortless, especially to the person you’re influencing.
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Ciao for now,
-Jay
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