The kiss of death first date mistake that 90% of men make

Here’s another pickup tip from the Ashton Kutcher movie I told you about last week.

He’s having a chat with his buddy (who just bombed another approach) and serves up some sage advice:


Harry: “I fukin’ froze up. I couldn’t say anything. I — I started making cricket noises.”

AK: “You know what your problem is? You care too much. Just say something to piss ’em off.”

Harry: “Why would I want to piss them off?”

AK: “Cause once you piss ’em off, you set up the apology. And once you apologize, you look like a sensitive guy.”

Harry: “I am a sensitive guy.”

AK: “All right, but you’ve gotta look like a rebel before you look like a sensitive guy.”


Funny enough, I used this approach just yesterday with a girl I met at the workshop. I accidentally insulted her when flirting over facetime and quickly recovered with a half-serious apology.

“I was just teasing you. I’m like a 6-year-old. When I see a pretty girl, all I know how to do is yank on her pigtails. Please forgive me.”

Acting shockingly polarizing up front is a useful way to grab a woman’s attention. Just make sure to switch out of that mode when she starts showing interest.

(On a side note, I promised myself I’d stop trying to wife up girls who live 3000 miles away but still failing miserably. To any tri-state local cuties reading this, hmu if you’d like to accompany me to bible study and grab milkshakes afterwards. Please no strippers, onlyfans entrepreneurs, or lactose intolerants.)

Whatever your style, avoid BORING her at all costs.

One of the biggest complaints I hear from women is that most guys bore the heck out of them, starting with boring convos on dating apps followed by more boring in-person conversations.

If you can’t capture and lead a woman’s attention, then you’ll have to settle for dates that go nowhere. No bueno.

And if you wanna learn everything I know about meeting and seducing beautiful girls, then you’ll want to check out the “Seduction Mastery Videos” that I bundled with the “Katie Sessions.”

Seduction Mastery was a project I started a few years back but never finished. And instead of letting the vids go to waste, I decided to give them away as fr-ee bonuses to Mindvana students.

Half of them come bundled with Mindvana Gold, and the rest (that ones that teach my seduction strategies) are bundled with the Mindvana Bonus Pack (called “The Katie Sessions”) which you can get your hands on right here:

>>>The Katie Sessions (Mindvana Bonus Pack)

P.S. I’ll be sharing more seduction tips from the AK flick over the next few days. Stay tuned…

Ciao for now,


Instagram: @jaycataldo
Twitter: @jaycataldo
Youtube: learn hypnosis in nyc

Leave a Reply