Why touching a woman “badly” makes them crave you even more

One of the new Mindvana girls wanted to hang yesterday so I decided to be super lazy and take the day off.

As I was sitting on my couch watching Doktor Sleep with a 21yo agency model curled up in my lap feeding me grapes and running her fingers across my fat belly, I was forced to contemplate my lazy existence.

I can tell you that the years seem to be passing much faster these days. But no matter how quickly the days fly by, I still remain acutely aware of just how far I’ve come and how absolutely useless I used to be in all areas of my life.

So today, I’d like to take a few minutes and give thanks to two very special influences.

I’d first like to thank YOU and all of our other members for reading my emails, purchasing my products, and pushing me to keep improving in all areas. I wouldn’t have gotten this far without you, so thank you.

I’d also like to thank one of the Lord’s most beautiful creations, without which I’d be forced to spend many a lonely night on my couch, minus the hand feeding and the barely legal companionship.

So this big fat thanks is for YOU, “Daddy Issues,” for all that you’ve done for me and will continue to do, as I conscientiously seek out women who have been touched by your warm embrace.

Your work has truly made the world a heaven on Earth for men like myself. Bless you and all that you do.

And lastly, I’d to thank my two hand, who take on most of the heavy lifting, as the rest of me sits back and enjoys the fruits of their labor.

As you’ve seen me mention many times in Mindvana, the way you touch a woman is extremely important.

Watch the post-session interviews with the girls and you’ll hear so many of them say:

“You started touching my arm and it was comfortable. And then you moved to my shoulder and my neck and I was like ‘Ok, this feels really good.’ And the next thing I knew, I was practically sitting in your lap waiting patiently for more.”

I teach parts of this in Mindvana, but it’s a tricky topic to teach in a video course.

One of the fastest ways to learn this skill is to bring a girl to a masseuse and have them give you an impromptu lesson. I did this many years ago and learned a ton from it.

People always remark that women are practically glued to me whenever I take them out. In a restaurant, for instance, my date will always be sitting next to me squeezed up against my body, as our hands roam all over each other.

Learn how to touch women properly and they’ll crave your touch constantly.

Once you know what to do with your hands, the next part involves careful calibration, not unlike the calibration we use during our hypnosis sessions.

Give a suggestion. Notice their response. Continue on (or change directions) based on the feedback you receive.

Use this same structure the next time you’re in bed with a girl, or even when just rubbing her shoulders.

You want to become laser focused on her non-verbals (her breathing, moans, micro-movements, etc.), and use her subtle feedback to guide you.

It kind of becomes an active meditation, of sorts – one that’s much more fun that standing in Qi Gong poses for hours, I can tell you that.

So there you have it. And remember… when you learn how to properly touch a girl with daddy issues, you’ll be introducing her to every Mindvana girl’s favorite game: “Bad Touch Daddy.”

And when you click here to learn all the rules of said game, you’ll also get the cheat codes for winning every time, forever and ever:


Ciao for now,


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